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Most people are familiar with “Black Friday,” the day after Thanksgiving when stores are full of huge savings for consumers buying upcoming holiday gifts.  Well along with the traditional Friday shopping day there have been two additional days of savings added including “Cyber Monday” and more significantly, “Small Business Saturday.”  In an economy dominated by large corporations, huge brand names, and superstores people often forget about the importance of supporting small, locally owned businesses.  Northampton is a special place where small, local businesses line our main strip providing customers with high quality and unique products that you really just can’t find at big name stores.  Supporting local businesses helps to boost local economies which is important in times of economic struggles like the ones we presently face.  Pride & Joy is a local, small business, owned and operated by people who care greatly for Northampton and the people who live here.  We hope that this holiday season you will work to support the local economy and local businesses.  By supporting a local business over a big chain you are making positive changes in the local economy and helping to create a more sustainable economic system in general.  At Pride & Joy we have many great holiday products as well as our old favorites and we hope to see you this holiday season!

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As we all know by now, Barack Obama will be serving another 4 years as our president.  As a business we have outwardly supported his campaign and share the same beliefs and values he holds important.  This election wasn’t however, just about the president and there were some very significant advances made in law as well as congressional elections.  The balance of power in the Senate is now favored towards democrats.  The first openly gay woman, Tammy Baldwin of Wisconsin was elected to Senate.  She is also someone who spent a portion of her life in Northampton; she is a Smith College alum.  This election also showed us progress in the quest for marriage equality in the U.S. with three new states voting to recognize same sex marriages.  The three states that voted to recognize same sex marriage are Maine, Maryland, and Washington.  At the same time Minnesota voted to reject a constitutional amendment that would ban same sex marriage in their state.  The results of the election can be contributed to a true change of perspective in the U.S.  With a democratic president who holds equality as one of his core beliefs and a democratic controlled senate we can have hope that there will be positive moves toward equality for the LGBTQ community as well as others who face oppression in the U.S.  At Pride & Joy we want to take the time to appreciate all who went out and voted and showed their support.  We still have many Obama products, many of which are on sale at great prices so come down and check them out as well as our great new “We did it” bumper stickers.

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If you’re an educator, you already know the importance of a safe, comfortable environment to the learning process. The bullying faced by LGBTQ and non-gender-conforming students has been making headlines for a handful of years now, particularly in the wake of the death of Rutgers University freshman Tyler Clementi. But did you know that as recently as 2009, almost nine in ten LGBTQ students experienced bullying during school hours as elementary or high schoolers? Or that one in three students, when surveyed, reported skipping school during the previous month in order to avoid verbal abuse or the threat of direct violence during school hours? These statistics come from a survey of school climates completed over the course of ten years by the Gay, Lesbian, & Straight Education Network (GLSEN); frighteningly, the study showed little to no change in the prevalence of bullying between 1999 and 2009, despite the major strides the LGBTQ community has made toward full legal equality and inclusion in mainstream media during that decade. Older studies suggest that students in elementary, middle, and high schools hear homophobic slurs about twenty-six times a day. Of course, for some of these kids, the bullying doesn’t stop at the end of the school day; students living in unsupportive households face even more difficulty.

Obviously, being bullied makes it much harder for students to learn– so LGBTQ bullying is, at its heart, an issue of civil rights. In the United States, all children and teenagers have the right to a free education through the end of high school. If a queer-identified or trans* student isn’t safe from threats of violence or abusive language in the classroom and winds up skipping class to avoid bullying, then zie/she/he cannot possibly receive an education fully equal to that of hir/zir/her/his straight and/or cisgendered peers. Northampton’s Pride and Joy stands in solidarity with anyone working toward the end of bullying and the rise of fully equitable education for LGBTQ youth, and we’re here to serve as a community resource for students and teachers alike.

So what can YOU do to help create an inclusive classroom? Here are some ideas from the staff at Northampton’s Pride & Joy!

  • Display a safe space sticker on the door to your classroom or office, and make sure students struggling with bullies know they can come to you for support, advice, and/or assistance (you can find one at NHPJ).
  • Educate yourself on how gender, sexuality, and identity develop and function. Especially if you work with younger kids, you may find that some students who seek your guidance don’t yet have the vocabulary to talk about what makes them feel “different” from their peers. The previous link takes you to a detailed overview from the American Psychological Association aimed specifically at educators. It’s also a good idea to pick up some academic books on sexuality and gender in whatever age group you teach. We have a great book on our shelves called The New Gay Teenager that examines empowerment among LGBTQ teenagers and might give you a whole new perspective on the potential positive impacts of growing up as part of a sexual minority.
  • Keep a library in your classroom for your students, filled with books whose content reflects and encourages an inclusive environment. If you work with kindergarten or elementary schoolers the picture books, My Princess Boy, And Tango Makes Three, and Daddy, Poppa, and Me all make great choices! If you teach middle or high school, the young adult novel Annie On My Mind will likely resonate with many of your romantically minded students, and Alison Bechdel’s coming of age graphic memoir, Fun Home, might be a good option for mature, literary-minded high school seniors. Because LGBTQ representation on television leaves something to be desired even now, especially on shows aimed at kids and teens, for many young people, our first time relating to an LGBTQ character in art, literature, or the media comes from reading novels and memoirs. It’s also a great idea to keep a couple nonfiction resource books around to lend out to students who may need them. It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living, edited by Dan Savage and Terry Miller (founders of the It Gets Better Project) makes a wonderful read for teenagers struggling to find acceptance. Kelly Huegel’s GLBTQ: The Survival Guide for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, and Questioning Teen is another excellent resource. These are all books we carry at Northampton’s Pride & Joy, among many, many others. We can also provide more specialized recommendations, and special order books for you if you want a specific title not already in the shop. Also: we’re always taking recommendations from customers for books we should be carrying, so if you have any titles you think belong on our shelves, please let us know!
  • Whenever you can, and in whatever way you can, express your respect for people of all identities, sexualities, and genders in front of your students. This doesn’t always need to be direct and verbal; it can be as simple as decorating your classroom with posters, magnets, and stickers that celebrate diversity and inclusiveness. Some shy students won’t come to a teacher for help with sensitive topics like gender and sexuality unless they’re absolutely certain they’ll be treated with respect and compassion, and even then, many may never tell you what they’re struggling with personally (or even that they’re struggling). The presence of a rainbow flag, an “End Bullying” bracelet or t-shirt, or a sticker reading “Different is not another word for wrong” or “Teach tolerance!” may help your LGBTQ students feel less alone, even if they don’t tell you so directly.
  • Get involved with your school’s gay-straight alliance, or spearhead the formation of one at your school. You can also register your GSA with Northampton’s Pride & Joy, so your students feel encouraged to visit our shop as a resource for community and literature (we’ll do guided tours of the store for GSAs, as well as special private shopping hours just for your group, upon request). Our store also offers a 10% discount for students in GSAs that have registered with us.

Hopefully these tips will prove useful. We hope you’ll come visit us sometime for more individualized recommendations for your classroom. If you have any additional tips for educators working toward LGBTQ-inclusive schools, or if you’re a student who wants to offer another perspective, please feel free to share in the comments! We welcome the opportunity to hear your thoughts on this important and timely issue.

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The rainbow flag is the modern day symbol for the LGBTQ pride movement.  It represents inclusiveness, diversity, and hope.  Historically, the flag has been a part of many different cultures and represented different ideas.  From its history in Europe, to Buddhism, to the Co-Operative movement there has almost always been the common theme of hope and inclusiveness associated with the rainbow.

The European history of the flag is associated with the Bible and it is said that God first created the rainbow so that Noah knew that there would never be another flood again.  Many reformers and social revolutionaries from the 14th-16th century are pictured with the rainbow flag to represent eras of hope and social change.  Moving forward in history, in 1885 Buddhists in Sri Lanka adopted the rainbow flag to represent the inclusivity of all forms of Buddhism around the world.  In the 20th century the Cooperative movement used the symbolism similarly to unite all different coops from around the world so that the movement would become more united throughout.

In the last fortyish years the rainbow flag has been adopted by the Peace movement as well as by the LGBTQ movement.  In 1961 the “PACE” flag (which means Peace in Italian) was used in a march to protest the development of nuclear weapons and has since been used to also demonstrate against the war in Iraq.  The most well known symbolism for the rainbow is that of the LGBTQ movement.  It was popularized in 1978 by San Francisco artist Gilbert Baker.  Each color of the rainbow flag has a specific meaning; however the greater meaning of the flag is that of inclusion of all people.   The literal meanings of each color are red: life, orange: healing, yellow: sunlight, green: nature, blue: harmony, and purple: spirit.   The original flag also included pink to represent sex and turquoise to represent art/magic but since they have been removed for production purposes.

At Pride & Joy we sell an array of different rainbow flags including the “PACE” version.  As a store and as people we believe that all parts of the LGBTQ community should be included in the rainbow.  Fundamentally, the rainbow was developed to give people hope and make them feel welcome.  A rainbow means that every person can be a part of a community, even if they are a mix of a couple different colors on the rainbow or don’t necessarily know where they fit.  Pride & Joy is a place where all parts of the rainbow are welcomed with open arms and we hope to continue to be a place where all kinds of people can find merchandise that represents themselves and those who are closest to them.  Be sure to come in and check out our awesome selection of rainbow flags, big and small!

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Northampton is a place full of eclectic and interesting people from many different places.  Much of Northampton’s history closely resembles the colorful patches of the quilt that make up Northampton’s past and present.  When looking at history, particularly that of Northampton, it isn’t the seemingly large, famous events that make up the most significant part of history.  It is the small efforts made by the community of Northampton that have shaped the beliefs that this wonderful city holds dear.

                Being a part of the Pioneer Valley means that the people of Northampton understand the importance of farmers and their rights.  In the aftermath of the Revolutionary War, the economy took many hard hits and the farmers of Western Massachusetts felt this strongly.  This economic tension resulted in Shays’ Rebellion which began on August 21, 1786 and ended in 1787.  This was an armed rebellion led by Daniel Shays who was a Revolutionary War veteran.  During this rebellion they shut down county courts to stop the judicial hearings for tax and debt collection.  In hard economic times it is always the small farms that seem to be impacted the greatest.  Today, Northampton holds two farmers markets, one on Tuesdays and one on Saturdays to show the town’s support for local agriculture and small farms.  Luckily, there are no longer armed rebellions such as the one led by Daniel Shays but instead there is a movement in Northampton to support local economies through events like farmer’s markets.

                Supporting local business is something that the people of Northampton stand strongly behind.  It’s a good feeling when you shop at a store or restaurant and know where your products are coming from as well as the people who are bringing you the products.  At Pride & Joy we have a selection of products made in the USA as well as some made locally to show our support for the U.S. economy.  We understand the importance of maintaining a sustainable economic system rather than supporting corporations that focus on the quickest, cheapest methods of production that often end in the exploitation of foreign labor and damage to the environment.  By continuing to support our local economies we can continue the rebellion that Shays began in Northampton over 200 hundred years ago.

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Like most of the northeastern United States, Northampton was founded by a small group of Puritans.  In 1653 a group of twenty four people came to Western Massachusetts in pursuit of easier trade with the Natives and better land for farming.  They granted a charter in 1654 to plant and possess Nonotuck.  The city of Northampton wasn’t incorporated until 1884.  The city seal represents important principles of what Northampton was originally founded on and still continues to strive for.   The saying on the seal says in Latin, “caritas, education, justitia.”  This saying means, caring, education, and justice which are three concepts that the people of Northampton have held tightly to since the city’s founding.

Over the years, Northampton has been a hub for progressive political and social movements.  One of the most significant historical movements that took place in Northampton was the creation of a Utopian community called the Northampton Association back in the early 19th century.  The Northampton Association was a community that combined ideas of radical abolition with a communally owned and operated silk mill.  For a period of time this silk mill was the home of Sojourner Truth, a freed slave who bought her first home in Northampton.  It was a project based around creating a self-sustaining community that was concerned with abolishing racial and gender divides.   Although this community ultimately failed due to economic reasons it is a very early example of the progressive mindset that still lives on in Northampton today.

Pride and Joy stands behind the founding principles of Northampton and celebrates the ideals of being socially and politically progressive city where all kinds of people are welcomed and celebrated.  We carry products that help to spread Northampton pride because it is such a unique and beautiful city and the experiences that people have here truly don’t happen anywhere else.

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Pride is a feeling most of us feel at one point or another in our lives.  We may feel it watching a loved one accomplish an important life goal, or when we accomplish a goal ourselves, or sometimes we simply feel it in moments of bliss when we realize we are part of a bigger, beautiful picture.  I’ve felt pride in many different forms, on a few different occasions.  The first was when I walked with my best friends in the Boston Youth Pride parade last spring, I was proud of my ally friends for coming with me and showing their support for something bigger than themselves in a way most of my friends wouldn’t do.  I felt a new kind of pride this spring when my rugby team won the division three championship at the Beast of the East Tournament, the largest collegiate rugby tournament in the U.S.  This sense of pride came from accomplishing a common goal, working through what seemed impossible to come out with a win we all worked through pain, sweat, cold, tears, and blood for.  However, more recently I felt a new sense of pride that was stronger than any I have ever felt before.

Previously, I wrote about this year’s Boston Pride and how it brought out a sense of community for me.  That’s not all it did, it also brought out a sense of pride that I had never had before.  At Pride, I felt as though I was part of a bigger picture and part of a movement.  There are obvious movements within Pride such as the movement for transgender rights or marriage equality but that’s not the one I felt.  I felt the unspoken movement of people being able to have this one day to all be together, expressing themselves freely and safely.  It was a time when so many different kinds of people and organizations that had different goals were all marching together and supporting one another.  Hugging strangers is a given and breaking apart the gender binaries and societal norms are encouraged.  It’s a time when we can all break from our shells and express what we feel about ourselves and for one another.

There aren’t enough spaces where people feel comfortable expressing themselves fully whether it be related to their inclusion in the LGBTQ community or just being different in general.  Breaking away from societal norms in terms of how we are supposed to act and present ourselves can be difficult and Pride events are a space full of people who understand and celebrate these differences.  At Pride and Joy, we are all about celebrating differences and being a store that focuses on inclusivity of different kinds of people whether they are a part of the LGBTQ community or the greater Northampton community.

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